THE FIELD GUIDE — KEEP IT MOVING.

How this works

Getting in

  • The Door asks one easy trivia question. Answer it, sign up (18+).
  • Take the character quiz (lemonlyman.app/quiz) — shareable, and your result can go on your badge.
  • First Day = your profile. A photo is optional — pick a cartoon character instead. Any character; they're never taken, even if half the room is Josh.

Meeting people

  • Two tabs, same idea: Date and Friends. You show up in whichever one matches what you picked in Settings — pick 'either' and you're in both.
  • Browse has two views: a grid of the whole room, or one person at a time. Same people, your choice.
  • Like a photo or an answer, and add a note if you want. One coffee ☕ a week — the super-like, dating only. It has to mean something.

Where are my messages?

  • Someone liked you → Date (or Friends) → Who likes you. Notes they wrote show up right there.
  • To answer: open their profile and hit ★. Anything back makes the match.
  • Every conversation lives in Messages, with a selector for dates and friends. It's the same inbox from either tab.

The Speakeasy

  • The group room — The Bullpen. Walk in, say hi. That's the whole rule.
  • Tap the 🍋 under a message to toast it. ↩ reply quotes them and keeps it going.

Events

  • Saturday Rewatch, 8:00 PM Eastern, every week in The Bullpen. Press play together at 8; debrief around 8:45 — watched it earlier? Come for the debrief.
  • A banner at the top of the site means something's on air right now. Tap it.
  • Video events open right here in the club — no app to install, no account anywhere else. Doors unlock 15 minutes before showtime.
  • Times always show in your own time zone.

Your profile

  • Settings — edit anything, pause your dating profile, or close your account.
  • Photos and prompts: Settings → Redo First Day.

Stuck? Got an idea?

  • Settings → The Cheese Box: drop ideas, complaints, or questions — the Leadership answers you right there.
  • Reply to any email from us — a person reads it. Report anything ugly in the Situation Room; we act fast.

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